Things are almost back to normal at the Carver-Gunter household.
Eric is still on the mend and out on short-term disability, probably
for at least 2 more weeks. Despite being in a bit of pain and having to
make regular visits to his doctor, he's enjoying his time off and has
been catching up on his sleep and reintroducing himself to me (we had
been seeing each other only about 10 minutes a day, if that, when he
was working all of the mandatory overtime of late.)
The best news occurred on Monday of this week. Eric had interviewed
for a "normal" day job at his plant several weeks ago. On Monday, he
was called and offered the job. After we spent some time discussing the
pros and cons of the position, he decided to accept the post. The
downside? Less money, as this job has little overtime (which means
fewer "boy toys" -- electronics, in his case). The upside? Regular 7 AM
- 3 PM M-F work schedule, no nights, no weekends, very little overtime,
and all holidays off! Wow, it's hard to remember the last time we
actually celebrated Christmas on Christmas Day or ate Thanksgiving
dinner on Thanksgiving.
It's going to be quite an adjustment for us both. I'm so used to
being a married single person (i.e. very little time spent with my
spouse) that I'm not sure how to be a "normal" couple with Eric with
the ability to have a good chunk of time to spend together at night or
on the weekends. When we went out for celebratory pizza last night,
Eric wanted to talk about expectations in this new phase of our
relationship, specifically how much time I would let him devote to
gaming. We established some guidelines agreeable to both of us, but the
big relief now is that I don't feel like Eric is being pulled in two
directions when he has time off (spending time with me vs. seeing his
gaming friends). That tug-of-war led to more disagreements than I care
to recount, but it looks like it's water under the bridge for now.
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